I'm sorry to hear of your situation Mr Woods. I think maybe if you had marked your video for adults only then maybe they would have kept it up there. However I think it's utterly ridiculous that they removed it considering the clearly "artistic" (ugh, can't find a better word) approach to the work.

[url=http://www.metacafe.com/]Metacafe[/url] is a personal favourite of mine, they're similar to Youtube, have a large amount of viewers too, yet they allow pretty much anything.